A question I had in my head for a while now is, “Why should you enjoy life?” Well, there are many different reasons to enjoy life such as having fun, enjoyable, and memorable memories. But a simple downside is the painful and depressing memories, such as losing a loved one or a pet. As a lot of us should know, you only get one life, so make a life you will remember and make a lot of new memories, some good and some not-so-good.
The way you make memories depends on whether you have the people to make the golden memories with. Fights, arguments, and dislikes are all a part of the way, you just need to figure out how you will handle them and what the appropriate response is to solve these issues. Some may never be solved, but you have to move on no matter what. Don’t keep the emotions inside. as it only causes more pain and anger which leads resentment and, in some cases even to violence. There may even be a recommendation to get therapy. which can help prevent the violence and may even save lives.
You and your loved one may not like the same things, and that’s okay. Though no one is guaranteed to like the same things, a way you can solve this issue is by finding something that you both enjoy, like movies, games, or sports teams. If you can find something your friend or loved one likes then it makes it easier to be close with them. More ways you can bond is by making time to hang out, have sleepovers, or generally being around the other person. It can help you make a bond and friendship that will last for a long time. More ways to build friendships are being there when they’re down or being available is support for them.
Some important advice is to understand that friendships don’t last forever so you will eventually have to deal with heartbreak, betrayal, and other negative things. Just don’t let losing a friend make your mood terrible; you can always make more friends or get closer to your current friends. There is no perfect way to live, but you can sure try to make it as magical and golden as possible if you make friends, enjoy life, and make memories that will last a lifetime.
